It's OKAY If.....

You Don’t Have It All Figured Out…Yet

Let's just admit that when it comes to life, we don't all have it figured out. Where you may be at in your life now, may not be exactly where you wished to be ten years prior.

Maybe it's something as simple as having the plans you made beforehand, change. Or maybe, it falls along the lines of something happening unexpectedly that has caused you to re-shape, re-think, and re-mold your life entirely. Whatever it may be. Just because things may not have worked out in the manner you intended for it to prior, or, that you are not where you want to be at in your life right now. Does not meant that there isn't still time! 

There is no deadline on when you should "have it all together." Embracing what is present now while you work on figuring it all out, has the most gratification.

Yes it's true that it can become rather frustrating when you make a plan, set new goals for yourself, then have something completely off the charts happen that changes it all entirely. It's rather obvious that when you hit a certain point in your life and your still fumbling for the ball, it can cause a sense of fear to arise that makes you question everything.

But where has that gotten you? Ten piles deep in fear or worry? Sometimes we tend to make the smallest grains of sand, mountains that we cannot climb.

Relax.. Take a breath and let’s shift gears.

In life, things won’t always go or happen according as planned. And when that does happen, the best thing one can do for themselves is adapt, change. Wake into the day with a mentality of hope. Clinging to this concept of embracing a new experience as it comes and taking the time to reflect on it all as it occurs.

“Life is all about the experiences you have while your having them. It's not about the destination, or where your going, it’s the journey that counts. It’s about embracing these experiences as they come.”

Just because something did not go as you originally intended it to, does not mean that all hope is lost. It does not mean that this is the end, or that you hit the end of your ropes.

You still have every waking opportunity to figure it out. You still have a chance to find your grounding once again.

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The destination is important, but the Journey is what matters most. Change can be rather fearful, and when you hit a road block in life, one that pulls you away from your initial plans, it can bring forth uncertainties and doubts.

But don't let it!

Yes it's easy to put the hammer down upon yourself when you feel like giving up, when the waters because rough, and the terrain becomes rocky, but don't.

Persevere.

There is always more time to shift gears, change your course, and trek upon a new path. Don't fall for the lie that this is truly the end. It isn’t. Everything will fall into place as it is intended to, if you believe.

There is so much happening in life right now, in this moment. Allow yourself an opportunity to seize that. To wander your terrain with open eyes, new perspectives, and a new sense of gratification for life entirely.

Sometimes the best things in life are the one’s that happen unexpectedly.

Just because things may not be where you want them to be yet, or things may be unfolding in a manner that is opposite to what you intended, it does not in any way mean that your life is over. 

It merely means you must Adapt.

Your journey will take you down many different paths, trials and tribulations, and may chew you up and spit you back out in an entirely different location. But, that’s okay. Don’t allow that to deter you entirely. Embrace the journey that was given and wake to LIVE another day.

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“One must not compare themselves to where another may be at within their journey. Each journey is one’s own, focus on your own story, be the main character of your own life, and choose to turn within.”

Everyone’s journey will be different. Everyone excels at different paces, and everyone treks different paths. Their successes does not compare to you, nor you to it. Your ability to succeed is not determined by where another may be at in their life. Their journey does not define you. YOU define you.

Don't compare yourself to another, and don't revolve your own expectations of where you may go, or who you may be, upon where another may be at in their own life. For you are not walking their path, and they are not walking yours.

Your success will come. Your certainties of who you are, where you wish to be at in life, and all that you truly wish to do, will happen. So embrace the journey you are experiencing as it is happening.

You are exactly where you need to be.

“Where you are going in life doesn't matter, But, How far you've come, speaks volumes.”

Let yourself have a chance to truly get to know the world around you, and enjoy the Journey that you are experiencing right now.

Go Explore new horizons, make new adventures, and create new opportunities that fill you up.

It's okay if you don't have it all figured out yet.

Your life is just beginning.

When your time is meant to happen it will. Just because it hasn't happened yet, doesn't mean it won't. There is still a possibility for it to, so relax.

Enjoy what is here right now. Give yourself the ability to embrace the journey and remember, it’s okay if….

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